A few weeks ago I went to see a public speaking coach, and today was my first presentation since starting meditation, yoga, and the other techniques she recommended. I had high hopes that I would be able to speak comfortably, but I was still a bit apprehensive.
Today’s presentation was in Washington Depot, Connecticut, which is way out in western CT. I was training 31 building inspectors, and it’s always hard to know what to expect with a group like that. They typically have varying levels of experience and interest in what I’m there to talk about, and they had just had a big meatloaf lunch. Keeping them awake was my main objective.
One of the recommendations from my coach was to connect with my audience as individuals, and think of it as a conversation, not a presentation. This is supposed to remove the instinctual discomfort with the perception of not being part of a group. So I went around to each table as they were finishing their meatloaf and explained that we would be playing a game and I needed them to think of a team name. I’m pretty sure they thought I was an idiot.
Honestly, though, I have been teaching about building codes for at least 15 years, and learning about them for 20+. When you take it one step further and narrow the code information down to just what pertains to doors, it’s really hard to get people excited about it. I developed a Code Jeopardy game about 10 years ago, as an interactive way to. Everyone who has taken the class has loved it, but I sensed that these guys would be a hard sell.
I didn’t let that stop me…I just acted enthusiastic and hoped that it would rub off on them. It sort of broke the ice when one of the guys asked me for a place setting and a glass of water. I wasn’t even wearing my apron!
So I just took a deep breath and jumped in. I was a little nervous at first but I got over it. This particular presentation is a little easier for me to feel comfortable with because it’s more informal and fun. Long story short, they all stayed awake, they all learned something, and I think they were all pleasantly surprised (I was even asked to repeat the presentation for all of the Connecticut Building Officials at a separate meeting). And I didn’t faint, die, or pee my pants. Success.