Summer Road Trip 2011 – Framingham to Asheville

It’s pretty sad that even on VACATION I can’t find time to update my blog.  I have been good about updating my work blog, but between the driving, the driving, and the driving, I haven’t had an extra moment.  I think I need an iPad keyboard so I can be more efficient in the car.  If I haven’t said it before, I LOVE my iPad with 3G.  It’s so great for navigating and finding gas, restaurants, hotels, ice cream – all the necessities, along the way.

We are currently at my brother and sister-in-law’s house in Grassy Cove, Tennessee.  It’s 7 a.m., everyone is still asleep, and the only sounds I can hear are the birds chirping and the cows mooing.  It’s an absolutely gorgeous day and the sun is doing a good job of burning off the fog.  I’ve got to start working on Hank (my sister-in-law’s dad) to sign over a tiny little plot on his cattle ranch.  I love Tennessee!  It’s like Vermont without the cold and snow.

We left home on Tuesday after Ben came home from work.  The kids and I had spent the day packing, doing errands, and cleaning up the remaining work projects.  Traveling has become so much easier for me since the current technology allows me to stay connected, although the downside is that I’m never disconnected.  Yesterday I got an email from a door company in Wisconsin while we were driving through North Carolina.  I’ve responded to at least 100 emails from the car during our trip, but this one was too hard to answer by email so we stopped at a rest area, everyone got out and left me in the car, and I called the customer.  The funny thing is that I’m not responsible for customers in Wisconsin, or anywhere outside of New England, but because of my work blog I get questions from all over the world.  Last Saturday someone from Egypt contacted me via Twitter and I answered his question with several back-and-forth Tweets.  Crazy!

Anyway, we left home with no idea where we would stop for the night and no hotel reservation.  We had packed dinner so we didn’t have to stop, and we were just going to drive as far as possible to cut down on the driving time the next day.  We ended up in Carlisle, Pennsylvania at 11:30ish, which I thought was pretty good progress.  It was a good chunk of our trip, but not so late at night that everyone would be toast the next day.

Behind our hotel was a big field that sloped up, like our own personal amphitheater for the wildlife show.  I first saw a bunny, then two turkeys, then three deer, and a while later the kids started yelling that there was another deer.  I grabbed my camera and took this photo of a doe with her fawn.  They were booking across the field and it was tough to see the fawn because of the camouflage.

We left the hotel pretty early because we had to get to Asheville, North Carolina that day and it was 500 miles away.  I always check for museums and zoos with a reciprocity agreement with the Museum of Science, which gets us in for free or half price, and I found a zoo in Roanoke, Virginia which was about halfway to Asheville.  It was a decent zoo, but pretty small…at least it got the kids out of the car and running around for a while.  They had a wildflower garden so I broke out my macro lens and gave it a try – photos to follow.  The zoo was right next to the Roanoke Star – the largest man-made free standing star in existence…I kept thinking about the man-made part of their claim to fame.  Is there a larger non-man-made star?

The kids passed out on the way from Roanoke to Asheville, and woke up with about an hour left.  The drive through the mountains was beautiful, and the kids were amazed by the dead coyote we saw beside the road.  Looking for more roadkill got them through at least 15 minutes of the trip.  We stopped at a scenic overlook which wasn’t overly scenic, but we found a bunch of empty but intact chrysalises on the stone wall which were very cool.  Norah just finished studying the whole caterpillar to butterfly thing in preschool so she told us all about them. 

We got to Asheville around 8:30, and I had made reservations on the way down (by iPad) at the DoubleTree.  We went to Asheville because when I posted on my work blog that I was going on a road trip and wanted some ideas for places to see great doors (I know, I’m weird), my work friend from Asheville offered to take me to the Biltmore Estate.  Asheville was only a couple of hours out of the way and I had never been there, so off we went.  I think that’s a great way to travel…i just need a VW bus and I’ll be ready to go where the wind takes me.

When we got to the hotel the kids went straight to the pool with Ben, while I unpacked and did a little work.  There was a TGI Fridays attached to our hotel so we went there for dinner at about 10.  I started feeling kind of queasy and anxious so I went back to the room and took some vitamin B12 because it was the same kind of feeling I had when I was B12-deficient (except the feeling went on for months).  I didn’t think it would help, but oddly enough – an hour or so later I felt fine and was able to eat the dinner Ben brought back as take-out.  I don’t know if it could have been the B12, but I don’t know what else it could have been.  I was really happy to feel better though.

The next morning Aliya and I got up early to meet my work friend in the lobby at 8:15.  I have known Rachel for over 20 years, but I haven’t seen her for probably 10.  We’re not close friends, but she likes my work blog and frequently comments or emails me about it.  I have relationships like this all over the country and social media has really helped me maintain them or form new ones.  Very cool.

I am going to write about the Biltmore in a separate post, since this one is bordering on becoming a book.

P.S.  Everyone is still asleep!!!

Happy Father’s Day!

Our family tradition is to spend Father’s Day in Ogunquit…this year Aliya asked if we could stay overnight, so here we are at the Anchorage by the Sea.  The weather is gorgeous.  We had a short thunderstorm just before dinner last night, and then we saw two gorgeous rainbows.  Norah kept insisting that they were from Grampa B.  Dinner at La Pizzeria was great – I highly recommend it if you’re looking for good pizza in Ogunquit.  I set the alarm for 4:45 this morning so I could photograph the sunrise from the balcony of our hotel, and it was well worth it.  We’re headed to the beach today.

Happy Father’s Day to all the dads out there!!

Post Vacation Week in Review

Monday was a complete blur of catching up with work and figuring out what I was behind on. At school, we have the staff appreciation lunch (I’m organizing) and the spring fundraiser (I’m handling the raffles) coming up next week, so I had some work to do on those so I wouldn’t start to panic. Aliya had a make-up game Monday night but it was cold and rainy and everyone was worn out so Ben took her and the rest of us stayed home and recovered from a day of not being on vacation.

Tuesday I spent the day in my office and then went to the town hall for my first official town meeting. I generally like to be prepared, and I felt very unprepared for town meeting. The meeting  for new members with the moderator was during vacation, so I didn’t get the primer on the rules and I hadn’t had time to read the giant envelope of paper that arrived while we were gone. I was definitely out of my element, but the guy who was a driving force behind recruiting new members matched us up with mentors so I was in good hands. My mentor was Bernice, who not only told us what was going on throughout the night, but also picked up the handouts for us and brought cookies. I sat with 2 people from my precinct and our school, and it was nice to get to know them better.

The process was really interesting, but it took quite a while to get through each article with all of the discussion from committees and town meeting members. I think we only got through 4 articles Tuesday night and we have 36 articles on the warrant, so it’s going to take a while. I’m definitely learning who the characters in town are. The meeting started at 7:30 (I had to meet with my mentor at 7) and ended just after 10.

Wednesday we had tickets to the Big Apple Circus, which I had ordered before I became a town meeting member. I LOVE this circus, and I have gone at least a dozen times. I used to find other peoples’ kids to take with me when I was single. A few weeks ago I realized that our tickets were for vacation week, because we weren’t originally planning to go away. I went to the circus’ website and filled out the generic contact form asking if there was any way to switch the tickets to a different night. A woman contacted me by email and switched our tickets to the night of our choice and gave us the same second row seats at the same half-price discount. I was BEYOND impressed.  There’s still time to get your tickets!

We went to the Kinsale for dinner before the show, conveniently located across the street. That was the scene of Norah’s defecation video last year. The circus was great as always…amazing performers, beautiful costumes, live music, a small venue, and non-profit. My favorite act was the animal act – 12 miniature horses, 3 goats, a bunch of dogs, and a full-sized horse. The kids loved this clown guy who talked in a crazy voice. Norah watched him for a few minutes and then asked, “Is he talking Spanish?!” It was a late night and I missed all of town meeting (I had hoped to go late), but it was a lot of fun except for the bickering. On the way from my office in Needham to downtown Boston (20 minutes), Aliya pulled Adlani’s hair, Adlani bit Aliya, and Aliya smacked Norah, so at one point they were all wailing. Ben and I discussed how we could have spent the same amount of money on a fancy dinner, a movie, and a sitter. Tempting.

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Thursday was Adlani’s parent-teacher conference. The good news is that he’s doing much better in almost every subject. The bad news is he hates reading and he’s having a terrible time with it. We’re having a meeting next week to start the process of having him evaluated to see how we can best help him. He’s a whiz in math, and does well in science and social studies, but reading and writing are just not easy for him.

Thursday night I went back to town meeting. I think they had made it through another 4 articles while I was at the circus. We voted on another 4 or 5 and then adjourned until Wednesday. I’m so excited that I’ll be able to go to Zumba, since the 3 weeknights that I can go are the same weeknights that I have town meeting.

I started out this morning with a dentist appointment for all 3 kids to have sealants applied to their teeth. I could hear Adlani and Norah screaming all the way from the waiting room. Apparently it doesn’t taste good, but hopefully it will keep the cavities at bay. The dentist had a roomful of dental students so I’m sure he was thrilled with the screaming.

Tonight Aliya had soccer practice and then Ben got the brilliant idea of going to the mall to shop for mothers’ day. I wanted to find a present for my mom, so I agreed. Shopping with the three cabelleros is not easy, and not particularly enjoyable. Ben kept them out in the mall so I could look at some clothes, and then we went to my favorite jewelry store. They didn’t break anything or pocket anything (as far as I know), so the shopping was a success. We had dinner at California Pizza Kitchen, and everyone is finally zonked out.

We have 2 soccer games tomorrow, and on Sunday Aliya and I are going to see Grease with some friends. I’ve got some prep-work to do for the fundraiser, and I would really like to do a new board for the teachers’ wish lists at preschool. I’m really looking forward to summer weekends at camp, where we have forced relaxation accompanied by plenty of eating and drinking. About 8 more weeks!

We’re back.

It’s 6:15 p.m. I’m in my pajamas and I have a tankard of wine. There’s a chicken pot pie (Willow Tree Farm – the best!) in the oven which I’m going to gorge myself on in 31 minutes. This is highly unusual behavior for me, especially since I’m also writing on my poor, neglected blog. It feels pretty good, so maybe I should make a habit of it. God knows, my “normal” habits aren’t working. No matter how hard I try I’ll never get it all done, so why bother?!

I couldn’t post about our vacation as it was happening because the internet connection was really slow and it made uploading photos tough. So I’ve saved it all up and I will now attempt to recreate our trip for your reading pleasure and so that my kids won’t be able to say I never took them anywhere.

Last Saturday, Aliya and Adlani both had soccer games so we waited until after the second game to leave on our road trip. We took off at 3 p.m. and headed south. Normally I have the entire round-trip route mapped out before we leave, with printed maps and directions filed in a corrugated folder with daily dividers, along with our hotel confirmations and lists of local restaurants. I would also plan a place to visit each day (zoo, museum, etc.) so the kids can get some of the crazies out, and of course, that information would be in the corrugated folder too.

This trip was different. We had no hotel reservations, no directions. We knew the final destination (Myrtle Beach), and the approximate ETA, but that’s it. So when I say we headed south, that’s what we did.

The drive was uneventful until NJ, but then the kids started getting antsy so we decided to stop at the Rainforest Cafe. While we waited for our table we roamed the mall and just generally enjoyed being out of the car. After dinner we got back on the road and hit REALLY bad rain storms. The rain came in bands, so it was zero-visibility for 10-15 minutes at a time, and then as soon as we decided to find a hotel it would clear up. We finally stopped in Maryland at 1 a.m. We standardized on Hampton Inns so it was just a matter of looking for the next one on my iPhone and calling to see if they had rooms.

The next morning when we woke up, we realized that the rain was part of the storm system that caused all of the tornadoes across the south. It was a gorgeous day so we headed for DC and walked from the Washington Monument to the Lincoln Memorial and back. It was pretty crowded but the kids had fun and we enjoyed being outside in the sun. I made Ben stop at a building that I worked on – the United States Institute of Peace. It’s gorgeous and it felt good to know that I was a part of it…even if I only had a small part (the door hardware). I took tons of pictures for my work blog and finally got kicked out by Security – the first time ever.

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From DC we drove all the way to Myrtle Beach and arrived at midnight. There was one spot on 95 that had a 12-15 mile backup in both directions, so I figured it was an area that had visible tornado damage. We got off the highway and took the back roads to avoid the traffic. We didn’t see a lot of damage because the police had certain roads closed. We ate at a BBQ place and the waitress said that 50 trailers had been demolished beside the highway, which accounted for the backup. By the time we finished dinner it was dark and the traffic was gone so it was smooth sailing from there.

We spent Monday-Thursday in Myrtle Beach and left on Friday morning. Monday we were mostly recuperating from the long trip, and the kids spent the day taunting the alligators in the retention pond and learning that fire ants will try to eat you if you stand on their home. They spent some time at the playground but it was a very low-key day. Tuesday I had lunch with a coworker and a customer, so everyone else spent the time at the beach. They got really sunburned even though they had sunscreen on. We stopped at Broadway at the Beach to have ice cream and go on some rides.

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Wednesday was another low-key day and then we went out to dinner. We had 2 coupons and it was against the rules to sit separately and use separate coupons, so Ben, Adlani and I had to pretend not to know the rest of the group. I could hear Norah saying to the waitress, “WE DON’T KNOW THOSE PEOPLE!” but she didn’t catch on (at least not before she processed both coupons).

Thursday was supposed to rain but the rain held off all day, so we went to the local zoo (I don’t recommend it), then back to Broadway at the Beach for a late lunch. The kids wanted to try the trampoline so we ended up with passes that allowed them to do the trampoline, paddleboats, coconut trees, and climbing wall. They had a blast. Norah got stuck about 25 feet up on the climbing wall because she didn’t weigh enough for the hydraulic cable to carry her down to the bottom, but she was rescued by a nice Asian girl who left the rope tied to her after that so she could yank her down if necessary.

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Friday morning we left Myrtle Beach around 9 and headed north, again with no plans. It was a little easier because we had 3 days to get home so we didn’t have 8-hour days of driving. Friday we drove to Virginia, by way of the Rocky Mount (NC) Children’s Museum and Science Center. The town seemed very depressed but the museum is beautiful. It’s in an old mill complex so the building itself is gorgeous. The museum is small but the kids enjoyed it. We got to the hotel early enough for them to go in the pool so it was a great day as far as they were concerned.

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Saturday we drove to DC again, and since it was another beautiful day we went to the National Zoo. The highlight (other than the price – FREE!) was the lion habitat. There were 2 females, 1 male, and 7 cubs. I could have stood there all day watching them. The cubs were so playful, jumping on each other and on the lionesses. We spent a few hours there and then drove to our home away from home – yet another Hampton Inn, in Maryland. The kids got in a half an hour of swimming followed by pizza, then early to bed in case the Easter Bunny was headed our way (he was). Around midnight I was drawn to the window and I saw 2 red fox running along the fence line. Very cool.

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Sunday we drove straight home with just a stop for lunch at Bertucci’s. The old me would have put the kids to bed and then spent 3 or 4 hours working but the new me read a book on my iPad until I passed out at 11. I LOVE reading on my iPad! And I forgot to mention…navigating on the iPad is AWESOME! I had signed up for 3G while we were in Myrtle Beach, so on the way back I was able to use the iPad instead of my phone. I could search for upcoming Hampton Inns, see if they had an indoor pool, and then make a reservation online. I could find gas, or ice cream, or whatever else we were desperate for. I could look for things to do when the kids couldn’t sit in the car any more, and I could check the local restaurant reviews to decide where to eat. I could also read, answer my email, and watch Real Housewives. I won’t leave home without it ever again. Seriously, everyone needs one!

I have tons more photos and I’ll upload them to Flickr when I get a chance. The old me would have spent the next 3 hours working on them, but the new me says, “Nightie-night!”

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#35of365 – Mine, All Mine

We arrived in Vegas last night after an extremely long flight. The guy sitting in the middle seat next to me was a broad-shouldered football player type so I spent the whole flight leaning to the right into the aisle. To make matters worse, I have been getting a cold and the dry air in the plane was brutal. By the time we got to our hotel rooms it was 4:30 a.m. Eastern time, 1:30 a.m. in Vegas. I had to take some quick photos before going to bed because my room (650 sf) at the Venetian is gorgeous!